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How To Pick Your Family Lawyer

Loading… A few years ago, I wrote an article about “How To Save Money On Your Divorce”.  While I still stand by what I wrote in that article, I have also noticed since, based on my clients’ experiences, that picking the right lawyer for you is another way to save money on resolving your family legal issues or divorce. It was eye-opening how many people felt that their lawyer was…


Eleven(11) Reasons A Weekly Date Night Is Critical

Loading… We all think of dating as something that happens when we need to meet people, in order to get into a relationship and possibly marry.  Most of us don’t think of dating that same person whom we’ll be spending our lives with!  As a psychologist who specializes in romantic relationships (both for singles and those in relationships) I have long been advising partners in couples therapy to have a…


The Sexual Nest You Know Nothing About

Loading… It takes both strength and courage to leave the safety of our current sexual nest. However, unless we spread our wings and depart from what we believe to be our security, we will stay forever trapped. Nirvana, pleasure, excitement, and happiness will permanently be strangers to us. Often in my practice, I encounter clients who express sexual concerns within their lives. After exploring, we discover that they are facing a…


How Sacred Couples Bath Can Improve Appreciation In Your Relationship

Loading… April is, “Couples Appreciation Month” so I decided to write an article on how taking a sacred couples bath can bring appreciation back into your relationship! I have long been a relationship expert.  I work with romantic relationships across the lifespan: from dating singles, to new relationships, couples living together and couples long married.  When I do couples therapy I see how the relationship can shift from being fun,…


Reasons Why People Give Up On Relationships

Loading… I was walking on the street the other day, and this woman behind me was speaking on the phone saying that she had given up on men. She had given up because she was always picking the wrong guys and always ending up with jerks who were hurting her. That made me smile, not because I was wishing her ill, but because it is such a common reaction. So…

Dating Etiquette for Men

Dating tips for Lovers-Reasons Why You Keep Screwing Up

Loading… Dating etiquette for men can be a tricky topic.  By trying to follow the right etiquette in hopes of coming across as a “gentleman” or “good guy”, guys can actually make the opposite impression.  Instead of coming across sweet and chivalrous, guys instead come across as weak and needy.  Here are some of the more common mistakes guys make when trying to follow the standard dating etiquette for men,…


Some Ways and Manners Why Dating Isn’t Easy

Loading… Working with a professional matchmaker is a little different than just jumping into the dating pool. Face it: you’ve decided to work with a matchmaker because you don’t want to waste your time. You want quality results. What you may not have considered is that essentially, you will be marketing yourself as a commodity. While we don’t like to think of ourselves in terms of being a ‘product’, keep…


Three(3) Possible Ways to Stay Motivated

Loading… If there’s one thing we know about life, it waits for no man. Ready or not, it keeps going. The trick to keeping up with it is to understand motivation. In my new book, Psychology of Motivation, I describe that we, as humans, are naturally inclined to avoid perceived pain and pursue perceived pleasure at any given moment. For example, say you are really good with the ladies. You know exactly how to…


How To Sabotage Your Relationship In Three Easy Steps

Loading… You have often heard that it takes two people to make a relationship work and it takes two to break it.  Yet every so often, the initial fissures arise from one person.  It may begin slowly, actions you view as insignificant, but with time and repetition, you are on track to hurt or destroy your relationship.  While there are numerous ways to go down this path, we will focus on three steps….

Kim James

Seven(7) Tips To Avoid Messing Up Your Wedding Proposal

Loading… Today, wedding proposals have elevated to Hollywood-inspired and Kleenex required moments shared across a plethora of reposts. No matter how extravagant or intimate the wedding proposal may be, it boils down to 7 important rules. With the help of Karen and Kimberly, professional proposal planners in Toronto and Vancouver at Luxe Proposals, they share their most important tips before taking the big step. Photo Credit Kim James Photography 1. Site Visit –…