What is Maturity? not What You Think fine out here

June 26, 2017

I used to think that maturity was about age and physical development, how wrong I was. I have since found out that age is only but a number, below are 20 definitions of *MATURITY* *-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-* 1…. *Maturity* is when you accept other people the way they are and their level of maturity. *+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+* 2…. *Maturity* is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best. *+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+* 3…. *Maturity*…


10 Reasons Why You Should Do The Things You love

January 28, 2017

Hating Monday mornings and living on paychecks is not the way to live life. Instead of lashing out at your current situation, you should see what you need to change your life. We are not here to pay bills and die. We are here to live our lives joyfully, without worrying about anything (or at least minimize worry and fear) When we do what we love we actually are more…


10 Ways You Can Be A Better Kisser

January 1, 2017

As cliché as it sounds, a kiss can feel like a Michael Bay-level explosion, or it can make you feel absolutely nothing at all. And if a common goal of the kiss is helping determine your attaction to someone, lip-locking can also establish a budding relationship: it’s the great divide between friend and lover. After all, a kiss can be just as intimate as sex, and just as important. (I,…


Answer These 5 Question Honestly Before breaking Up With Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

December 3, 2016

Sometimes you feel the only way to be happy once again is to walk away from your current relationship, but it’s okay to do a little reality check before you proceed with your breakup speech. Inspired by YourTango, here are 5 questions to answer before making a decision: 1. Have you been unhappy in this relationship for a long time?:People stay in unhappy relationships knowing that it’ll never get better,…


How To Spot Girls Looking For Boyfriend At Lagos Restaurants

December 1, 2016

I see them all the time in high brow restaurants in Lagos. Usually, they announce their presence in a group of four, three or two in some cases.Guys reading this, you are part of the problem in Nigeria if you notice the first thirteen signs without approaching their table. Here we go. 1. They pick the most visible spot in the restaurant to seat. 2. Then study the menu like they are…


How To Get A Guy To Propose – Without Pressuring Him

There will come a time in your relationship with the guy your sure is ‘The One’ when you want nothing more to take the next step, get engaged and continue the rest of your life with him by your side. However tradition has it that you have to wait for your man to propose so it seems your destined to become one of those girlfriends that gaze at him meaningfully during your…

November 13, 2016


November 12, 2016

  If you or your partner isn’t in the mood tonight, it very well might be because of something you ate. Have you ever been in a car where the driver keeps hitting the brakes? It can be sheer torture, right? That’s what these foods are to your sex drive, which is typically fueled by testosterone. We often think of it as a hormone than men have zipping through their bodies. Estrogen,…


What to Do When You Fall In Love With Your Ex Again

November 12, 2016

Can you fall in love again with an ex and have it work out the second time around? As long as partners are able to identify and accept what went wrong the first time, experts say yes. The love never died. If you’re pulled toward an old relationship, there’s a reason, says psychotherapist Ken Page. “Be sure you are clear on what that reason is. It may mean that one or both…


What Happens When Couples Marry after the First Baby?

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October 30, 2016

What Happens When Couples Marry after the First Baby? A briefing paper prepared for the Council on Contemporary Families by Kelly Musick, Cornell University and Katherine Michelmore, University of Michigan One of the consistent findings of sociological research in recent decades has been that couples who had a child before getting married had substantially higher odds of divorcing than couples who married first. This held true even when researchers controlled for…


Three Betrayals That Destroy Relationships

October 29, 2016

There are worse things than Cheat!ng. Infidelity is the betrayal our society focuses on, but it is actually the subtle, unnoticed betrayals that truly ruin relationships. When partners do not choose each other day after day, trust and commitment erode away. Partners may be aware of this disloyalty to each other, but dismiss it because it’s “not as bad as an affair.” This is false. Anything that violates a committed relationship’s…